Which statement would NOT be a sign of engrossment in the father?

• A. He demonstrates intense preoccupation with the newborn.
• B. He is interested in the infant's details.
• C. He expresses a desire to be close to the infant.
• D. He avoids eye contact with the infant.

Answer: (D)

Engrossment in the father means becoming highly attentive and emotionally involved with the newborn. This shows up as a strong preoccupation with the baby, noticing and wanting to know small details about the infant, and a clear wish to be physically close. Each of these responses reflects active engagement and a budding paternal bond.

Avoiding eye contact, however, does not fit with engrossment. Eye contact is a key way caregivers connect with a baby and read the infant’s cues; steering away from the baby suggests disengagement or discomfort rather than deep, attentive bonding. So the statement about avoiding eye contact would not be a sign of engrossment. The other options describe behaviors that align with forming a close, attentive connection with the newborn.