To support a 5-year-old's adjustment to a newborn, which action is most appropriate?

• A. Involve the sibling in planning and care of the newborn
• B. Isolate the sibling from the newborn
• C. Punish the sibling for changes in routine
• D. Minimize time spent with the newborn

Answer: (A)

Including the older sibling in planning and caring for the newborn helps the 5-year-old feel needed and connected to the new family member. When a child this age can participate in age-appropriate tasks—choosing a blanket, helping with a diaper change under supervision, choosing a book to read to the baby, or simply helping with simple chores—their sense of importance and control grows. This involvement supports a positive relationship with the baby, reduces feelings of jealousy or left-out-ness, and provides predictable routines that help them adapt to the family changes.

In contrast, isolating the sibling, punishing them for changes in routine, or minimizing time spent with the newborn tends to increase insecurity and resentment, making adjustment harder rather than easier.